Anyway I figured I could answer those two frequent questions in this post and at the very end show you guys his audition video. Since I'm not a music person, I have no idea if its good or not, but he's worked hard at it. Starting with the first question though How do I feel about him wanting to leave, and for part two do I think he'll break up with me if he gets it.
Like any other girl who's boyfriend is planning on moving thousands of miles away, of course I'm not happy that he wants to go. From the girlfriend perspective, Big Hair leaving is terrible. No more fun times in Brown County and probably only a few phone talks because the times would be so different. Which brings me to the question of him breaking up with me, and honestly I don't know. I know that he wouldn't do it at first, but when you're so far away from someone what kind of a relationship is that? I'm one of those girls that requires a little bit of attention. But on the other side, there's no way I'd break up with a fancy band man.
Do I think he should Go? No, not at all. I think this would be one of the worst decisions of his life. Right now he's going to one of the BEST music schools in the country, on a full scholarship, is getting music gigs quite frequently, and has an awesome family (plus me!) all right here. If he went to London, for one he couldn't afford to live there due to housing prices, he'd lose not only his place but also his scholarship in the IU school of music, and he'd have to live there full time, meaning no fun family or Hanna. I mean I don't even know how he's going to get the money for a plane ticket, since he spent everything on a passport that hasn't even arrived yet.
Even though I think its so dumb, and he has literally no idea what he's getting into, if I were in his position I'd do it too. Not trying would be something I'd regret forever and this is his dream, even if they aren't even a "popular" band. My parents unlike his wouldn't let it happen though, and I'm really surprised his are. On the plus, he does have a few very attractive relatives I would like to get to know. Maybe if he leaves he'll feel bad enough to set me up with them. I mean a girl can dream right?
So here's that video I was talking about. Although I'm sure a few of you want to come to my rescue or something and comment or dislike the video, to keep him from getting picked, but I do want him to get the part (as much as it seems like I don't), because that's what he wants. Oh and on another side note, if you are planning on using this to contact the Big Hair or whatever, don't. I know the kid and there's no way he'd be into a creepy stalker girl.